Sunday, May 22, 2011

Lesson #33- Missionary Work by Julie C.

*Julie asked the class to stay open to the spirit during the lesson to an promptings we may receive about specific people who we could help bring closer to Christ.

Faith cycle:

Faith in Jesus Christ --> Hope --> Charity --> more faith in Jesus Christ

We see this in the stories of the great missionaries in the scriptures: Ammon, Alma, Paul, Enos, the Sons of Mosiah.

In terms of sharing the gospel with others, what works based on your experience? Class list is below:

-friendship
-commonality
-example
-being mentally prepared
-prepared with materials (DVDs, pass along cards etc.)
-intimacy with others, being comfortable sharing things we feel deeply about
-waiting for appropriate time
-prayer
-preparing to serve a full-time mission or accepting a missionary calling locally
-always being a witness of Christ

Remember that this is the Lord's work, therefore he will make up for things we lack. Julie shared her experience that as she has shared the gospel with others, the Lord has always compensated when she feels she didn't express herself as well as she would have liked or couldn't think of all the right things to say in the moment. Because the Lord loves his children and wants them to return to him, he will find ways to communicate with them that surpass our imperfect ability to communicate so we need not be overly concerned with our personal shortcomings.

Jacob 5:71-72-

71And the Lord of the vineyard said unto them: Go to, andalabor in the vineyard, with your might. For behold, this is theblast time that I shall cnourish my vineyard; for the end is nigh at hand, and the season speedily cometh; and if ye labor with your might with me ye shall have joy in the fruit which I shall lay up unto myself against the time which will soon come.

72And it came to pass that the servants did go and labor with their mights; and the Lord of the vineyard labored also with them; and they did obey the commandments of the Lord of the vineyard in all things.

This is the Lord's work and we are privileged to be able to participate in it. He will accomplish his work, but it is our choice whether or not we benefit from helping him.

"The Standard of Truth has been erected; no unhallowed hand can stop the work from progressing; . . . the truth of God will go forth boldly, nobly, and independent, till it has penetrated every continent, visited every clime, swept every country, and sounded in every ear, till the purposes of God shall be accomplished, and the Great Jehovah shall say the work is done."

-Joseph Smith, History of the Church, 4:540.


Sunday, May 15, 2011

Sunday, May 15th Lesson- "Tithing" taught by Jen W.

Tithing

What is tithing?

Anciently, Abraham and Jacob obeyed the commandment to pay a tithe of one-tenth of their increase (see Hebrews 7:1­10; Genesis 14:19­20; 28:20­22).

In modern times the Prophet Joseph Smith prayed, ³O Lord, show unto thy servants how much thou requirest of the properties of thy people for a tithing (D&C 119, section introduction). The Lord answered: ³This shall be the beginning of the tithing of my people. And after that, those who have thus been tithed shall pay one-tenth of all their interest annually; and this shall be a standing law unto
them forever² (D&C 119:3­4). The First Presidency has explained that ³one-tenth of all their interest annually² refers to our income (see First Presidency letter, Mar. 19, 1970).

Tithing is used by the Church for many purposes. Some of these are to:

1. Build, maintain, and operate temples, meetinghouses, and other buildings.
2. Provide operating funds for stakes, wards, and other units of the Church. (These units use the funds to carry out the ecclesiastical programs of the Church, which include teaching the gospel and conducting social activities.)
3. Help the missionary program.
4. Educate young people in Church schools, seminaries, and institutes.
5. Print and distribute lesson materials.
6. Help in family history and temple work.

Other Offerings

Fast Offerings.
Church members fast each month by going without food and drink for two consecutive meals. They contribute at least the amount of money they would have spent for the meals. They may give as generously as they are able. This offering is called the fast offering. Bishops use these fast offerings to provide food, shelter, clothing, and medical care for the needy. (See chapter 25 in this book.)

As part of the fast day, members attend a meeting called the fast and testimony meeting, where they share with each other their testimonies of Christ and His gospel.

Other Donations

Church members may donate to other efforts of the Church, such as missionary work, the Perpetual Education Fund, temple construction, and humanitarian aid.

Service. Members also offer their time, skills, and goods to help others. This service allows the Church to help needy members and nonmembers around the world at community, national, and international levels, especially when disasters occur.

Obeying the Law of Tithing

What is an honest tithe?
“While tithing is paid with money, more importantly it is paid with faith. I have never met an individual who paid an honest tithe who complained about it. Rather, he put his trust in the Lord, and the Lord never failed him.”
-Pres. Hinckley

Does this mean that it¹s not an honest tithe if you complain about it?
Why do we pay tithing?
What¹s our motivation?

Last week during Alan’s lesson we talked about how some commandments are pretty black and white and we can feel confident in ourselves that we are obeying, even mastering, this one part of God’s commandments.

Is the Law of Tithing black and white?
I admit, when I saw the lesson I would be teaching, I felt like there might not
be a way to encourage us all to do a better job paying our tithing.

We Are Blessed When We Give Tithes and Offerings

Latter-day revelation tells of another blessing for those who tithe: Verily it is a day of sacrifice, and a day for the tithing of my people; for he that is tithed
Shall not be burned at his coming (D&C 64:23).

Sheldon Child told a story in conference of the first money he ever earned selling a calf. He said, “When Sunday came, I reluctantly put two shiny coins into my pocket to pay my tithing. As hard as it was to surrender my precious silver dollars to the bishop, I still remember now how good I felt being obedient to the Lord.
On the way home from church, my mother told me how proud she was of me. Then she said, Your grandfather always told us children that if we would faithfully pay an honest tithing, the Lord would bless us and it would be the best investment that we could ever make.”

The Lord promises to bless us as we faithfully pay our tithes and offerings. He
said, Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine
house, and prove me now herewith if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to
receive it (Malachi 3:10).

President Heber J. Grant stated, I want to say to you, if you will be honest with the Lord, paying your tithing and keeping His commandments, He will not only bless you with the light and inspiration of His Holy Spirit, but you will be blessed in dollars and cents; you will be enabled to pay your debts, and the Lord will pour out temporal blessings upon you in great abundance.

Are these real promises?
Does perspective change our views?

Elder Sheldon F. Child remembered a faithful father in the Philippines telling of paying his meager tithing to the bishop one Sunday and then leading his children home from church, knowing full well that there was no food for them. As they were walking along, a huge breadfruit dropped from a tree right in front of them. He immediately looked up and thanked God for opening the windows of heaven and sending him a breadfruit to feed his children. Speaking to Latter-day Saints in the Philippines, President Gordon B. Hinckley said that if people ³will accept the gospel and live it, pay their tithes and offerings, even though those be meager, the Lord will keep His ancient promise in their behalf, and they will have rice in their bowls and clothing on their backs and shelter over their heads. I do not see any other solution. They need a power greater than any earthly power to lift them and help them (Inspirational Thoughts, Ensign, Aug. 1997, 7).

Those who take the leap of faith to pay their tithing testify that the windows of heaven are opened to them. The blessings we have been promised are both material and spiritual. If we give willingly, Heavenly Father will help us provide for
Our daily needs of food, clothes, and shelter.

President Hinckley said: This is not so much a matter of money as it is a matter of faith. I urge you, every one of you, to take the Lord at His word in this important matter. -Hinckley, 1985

I like this challenge to take the Lord at His word. In all things isn’t that the ultimate test of faith? Can this apply to us as we pay our tithing today? Can it apply to other commandments we want to obey?

How do we teach this to our children?
A mother in West Africa shared her testimony about tithing. She was a trader in a marketplace. Every day she would come home, count out her tithing, and put it in a special place. Then on Sunday she would faithfully take it to her bishop. She shared with us how her business had grown and how her family had been blessed with health and strength and enough food to eat. Then with tears in her eyes she said, But the greatest blessings of all are that my children love the Lord and we are a forever family.

Sheldon F. Child, Conference 2008
When I was a small boy, each December my father would take us all across the street to the home of Bishop Duncan for tithing settlement. The bishop
did not have an office in the ward building, and so he had to conduct business
in his home. We would all sit in his living room and, one by one, he would invite us into the dining room. Our tithing might be 25 cents, or maybe 50 cents, but it was a full tithing. He wrote out a receipt and recorded the amount in the ward record. The amount may have been so small that it cost more to record it than it was worth. But it established a habit which continued through all of these years. With the payment of tithing have come innumerable blessings as the Lord has promised.

President Hinckley, YW Conf. 2007
Do your children see you paying your tithing?

Finances are on paper and sometimes not as visible these days. How can we keep tithing visible to our children?

We were refugees from Mexico. During the years that followed, father had a difficult time getting enough food to feed his family. I remember about two years after we came out of Mexico (that would be about 1914), father got a job in Oakley, Idaho, teaching in the Cassia Academy for $80 a month. When father and his brother came out of Mexico, they both had large families. Knowing that they would have a difficult time to make a living (they brought nothing out of Mexico except what they could bring in one trunk), they joined together and pooled their earnings. After a short stay in El Paso, Texas, they went together to Los Angeles, California, where they worked as carpenters. Later they moved to Oakley, Idaho, where they could raise their families in a Latter-day Saint environment. When one of them was out of work, they divided the income of the other and thus eked out an existence for both families. My uncle got out of work one winter in Idaho. That left them the $80 that my father received for teaching with which to support about 17 people. They had to pay rent, they had to buy everything they ate, and they had to buy fuel, except that I went out on the side hill and dug the sagebrush from under the snow for fuel. I kept warm digging and mother kept warm poking it into the stove. The rest of them nearly froze.
The question came up in the family council- did father pay tithing on that $80? If he didn’t, he would have $40 a month to care for the family; if he did, it would be cut down by $4 and he would have $36 a month. I remember that council, and I remember that they decided that they would pay their tithing, and I remember that they sent me with the tithing to the bishop. It was cold, and I didn’t have warm clothes, and I wondered what really had gone wrong with father. I learned from the training of my parents that there is truth in the Lord’s promises.

-Marion G. Romney

What are some blessings you, your family members, or your friends have received through the payment of tithing and other offerings?

Mother's Day Lesson - “Far beyond Rubies” by Marguerite H.

Marguerite spoke about her friend Gale who passed away last week.
“Gale”: defined in dictionary a) strong wind, b) emotional outburst (laughter)
Love in action.
For me, Gale was a light in my life.

Today is a day to commemorate women who have given us life and women who help bring joy and meaning to our lives--beacons in our lives.

Beacon (definitions)
1 a signal fire or light on a hill, tower, etc, esp one used formerly as a warning of invasion
2 a hill on which such fires were lit
3 a lighthouse, signalling buoy, etc, used to warn or guide ships in dangerous waters
4 a radio or other signal marking a flight course in air navigationhttp://dictionary.reference.com/browse/radio+beacon
5 a stone set by a surveyor to mark a corner or line of a site boundary, etc
6 a person who serves as a guide or inspirationhttp://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Belisha+beacon

My hope today is that today will be a day of gratitude for women who are beacons in our lives.

Who are the women--sister, friend, mother, niece, grandmother--who have helped defined good parts of your life? Who are the beacons in your life? (the following list was shared by class members)

  • Gale- love in action
  • Adelia- love, support, fun
  • Kate- faith, courage, compassion
  • Shirley- love of outdoors
  • Grace- sense of humor
  • Acenith- family
  • Ruth- strength in adversity
  • Glenna- great teacher of faith and testimony
  • Jedda- rise above
  • Kim- forgiving, quick to say sorry
  • Beatrice ("Bea")- acceptance without compromise
  • Kathryn- hope

One of my favorite scriptures about the goodness of women is in Proverbs 31. Did you know that it is recorded as advice from a mother to her son about qualities to look for in a woman? Also, did you know that each verse starts with a letter of the Hebrew alphabet in order?

Proverbs 31
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
30 .... a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

Each one of us can be a beacon.

“The lives of good and noble women are a powerful witness that spiritual gifts, promises and blessings of the lord are given that all may be benefited.” - Elder Uchtdorf

Isaiah 30:17 “till ye be left as a beacon upon the top of a mountain, and as an ensign on an hill.”

“The virtue of your own life will be a light to those who sit in darkness, because you are a living witness of the fullness of the gospel.” –Elder Uchtdorf

Truly as we have relationships with worthy and loving women and can be that way to others, our lives are filled with beacons-- of value far beyond rubies.

Light in Relationships


On May 10th at our weekday activity, we were spoiled to have guest speaker Liz Wiseman (from the Valparaiso Ward) talk to us about light in relationships and different leadership models that can help us at work, in the classroom, or at home. Most of what she spoke about came from her book Multipliers. Here are some brief notes for any sisters who missed the evening.

*There are 2 basic types of leaders -- Multipliers and Diminishers.
-Multipliers augment the intelligence of those around them. They make the people around them feel motivated and brilliant, and the encourage good work.
-Diminishers make those around them question their intelligence, and consequently everyone works less efficiently.

What are people like when they're around me? When they're not around me? When are they at their best? Do I create an environment where good things happen?

Liz asked the sisters in the room to brainstorm and come up with two leaders we knew, one who was a diminisher, one who was a multiplier, and then write down on post-it notes what made these leaders belong to either camp. Then she asked us to write down on separate post-its how efficient we were with these people, in terms of a number percentage. Here is an abbreviated list attributes or adjectives we came up with for each model, along with the average work efficiency of our group:

-Diminishers-
criticize, do everything themselves
always correcting, humiliating
inattentive, don't ask follow-up questions
don't listen, critique everything
got angry
"that's nice, but..."
made me hate work
only her ideas would work

Average work efficiency - 33%
Diminishers - fundamentally believe they can do a better job themselves, and that people will not figure it out without them. Working with/for them is most often deemed frustrating and exhausting.
(Liz pointed out that you don't need to be mean-spirited to be a diminisher. Most diminishers have very good intentions!)

-Multipliers-
love people, ask questions
empower, encourage
praise work, ideas and philosophies
gave confidence, want ideas from everyone
nurture
relentlessly expect our best
challenge, push hard
shameless about asking to do hard things

Average work efficiency - 95%
Multipliers- fundamentally believe that they can expect the best of others and that other people are smart. They give people their space and in return expect their best thinking. Working with/for them is most often deemed exhausting and exhilarating! Much like an intense, invigorating workout.

Liz mentioned the interesting correlation between Satan's plan and Christ's plan, and how Satan is the ultimate Diminisher and Christ is the ultimate Multiplier. Satan wanted to micromanage every aspect of our lives since he didn't think we were smart enough to figure it out, whereas Christ trusts us and grants us the agency to make mistakes and in turn become more creative and satisfied and fulfilled. Agency is the big difference here.

One of the main principles Liz taught us is that the value of answers diminishes over time, whereas the value of questions increases over time. If we keep trying to provide answers and statements to those around us because we think we know best, this will soon lose value and those around us will feel dumbed down or diminished. But if we make it a habit to ask questions, provoking the curiosity and minds of those around us (especially children!), others will trust their intelligence more and feel more confident.

Take this quiz on her book's website to find out if you are an accidental diminisher.

Fascinating, thought-provoking evening! Thank you Liz!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Easter Bread - Lisa R.

Lisa borrowed this recipe from Paula Dean from the Food Network to provide some wonderful rolls on our Easter Sunday. Below is the cinnamon roll version, but they are equally as yummy when kept plain!

Ingredients

Dough:

  • 1/4-ounce package yeast
  • 1/2 cup warm water
  • 1/2 cup scalded milk
  • 1/4 cup sugar

  • 1/3 cup butter or shortening
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1 egg
  • 3 1/2 to 4 cups all-purpose flour

Filling:

  • 1/2 cup melted butter, plus more for pan
  • 3/4 cup sugar, plus more for pan
  • 2 tablespoons ground cinnamon
  • 3/4 cup raisins, walnuts, or pecans, optional

Glaze:

  • 4 tablespoons butter
  • 2 cups powdered sugar
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 3 to 6 tablespoons hot water

Directions

Heat oven to 350 degrees F.

In a small bowl, dissolve yeast in warm water and set aside. In a large bowl mix milk, sugar, melted butter, salt and egg. Add 2 cups of flour and mix until smooth. Add yeast mixture. Mix in remaining flour until dough is easy to handle. Knead dough on lightly floured surface for 5 to 10 minutes. Place in well-greased bowl, cover and let rise until doubled in size, usually 1 to 1 1/2 hours.

When doubled in size, punch down dough. Roll out on a floured surface into a 15 by 9-inch rectangle. Spread melted butter all over dough. Mix sugar and cinnamon and sprinkle over buttered dough. Sprinkle with walnuts, pecans, or raisins if desired. Beginning at the 15-inch side, role up dough and pinch edge together to seal. Cut into 12 to 15 slices.

Coat the bottom of baking pan with butter and sprinkle with sugar. Place cinnamon roll slices close together in the pan and let rise until dough is doubled, about 45 minutes. Bake for about 30 minutes or until nicely browned.

Meanwhile, mix butter, powdered sugar, and vanilla. Add hot water 1 tablespoon at a time until the glaze reaches desired consistency. Spread over slightly cooled rolls. 

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Hearts and Hands Quilts

Our fabulous Compassionate Service Committee is putting together quite the project for our sisters. At our Relief Society Birthday Celebration, many of us were able to decorate squares of fabric with our handprints or with hearts. Later, sisters got together to tie the quilts. These squares are all going to be part of a number of quilts which will circulate among our sisters.